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just something I found I thought was interesting

Foreplay - Exciting Women

Introduction

The role of the submissive as geisha, can also involve pleasuring a woman. This may come from many perspectives. It could be that your Dominant is a woman, or your relationship may be poly. This may or not indicate that the geisha submissive is a lesbian or bisexual. It is simply her role to pleasure. Even if the geisha is not bi, she often finds it very easy to pleasure a woman because she is a woman and knows how to be touched.

I also find many women who are not bisexual or lesbian, have no problem enjoying the pleasures of another woman for this very reason. The other woman knows how to touch and excite her. Unfortuanately it is rare for a man to understand this much less take the time learn this. So actually this is a good lesson for men , whether dominant or submissive, to read as well and learn from.

You can imagine how pleasantly surprized I was to find my Master so skilled in the art of exciting me, a woman. He knows how to do these things, and literally taught me much about my own body and my own pleasures, that I never knew. So it is easy to understand why my heart and soul melted into his and I became forever his pleasure slave.

Foreplay

Foreplay is something one can hardly ever over do when it comes to pleasuring a woman. You can go on and on and on for hours. It seems one can endlessly kiss, caress, hold, pet, undress, {tie and untie... giggle}, and pleasure ones partner orally with out ever having actual intercourse or penetration. Each act can be the total of the foreplay, or you can use endless combinations, before or even if one gets to any form of penetraion..

The geisha is wise to learn the beauty and art of kissing and holding her female lover, as it is the key to slowly arouse your partners excitement level up slowly higher and higher. Those who involve themselves in much foreplay, will find the orgasm much easier to have.

Many books today teach the secrets of knowing where to touch a woman. While this is important, women need and desire something even more important. They need to know you care about them, and are aware of their needs. Just trying to touch and arouse by touching key places in certain ways, will not work.

Talk about her, tell her how gorgeous she is, and how her body excites you. If there is one thing women are extremely sensitive about, it is their body. Today's media has created such an obsession with the female body and gives us illusions of what is beautiful and we are told how to make it perfect.

If a lady, is sensitive about her body, she will surely be so naked and during play. So tell her over and over how beautiful she is and how now other aroused you like she does. If you do this, you will find less inhibitions, and perhaps a tigress in bed with you.

Be gentle, take your time, and continue to talk, softly to her. Ask her what feels good, if she likes how you are stroking her.Tell her to be HONEST. If something is not good, allow her to say so, and not get offended.

Kiss her all over.... her shoulders, her neck, behind the ears. Don't go straight for the breasts or her clit! GLide your tongue across her sensuously. Softly suck on her tender skin.

After a while, take your tongue and softly circle her breast with your tongue. Take your time as you slowly work your way to her nipples. Circle your tongue, around and around the nipple.

About nipples. Go easy. Some will be very sensitive, and too much stimulation can be unpleasant or even painful at first. She may need to let them adjust to the stimulation. Some women like a little to a lot of biting, others like soft to hard sucking. Experiment, and watch for her response, listen to her voice and those deep guttural sounds in her throat. Learn to read her as to what you are doing.

No two women are alike, so take your time, explore and experiment.

Kiss her stomach, especially in the curves on the side. Kiss and stroke her navel. Some women are really turned on by caressing and kissing her buttocks, and ever her anus area.

One area that is completely overlooked are the feet. They can be very erogenous to many women. Rubbing the feet and sucking the toes can send some women through the roof. A few cannot stand to have their feet touched.

Finally make your way to the inner thighs. Kiss suck and caress around the vagina inside the thighs. Again do NOT go straight fro the clit. Tongue her around her outer lips, slowly and softly... Again softly. Do not go straight to heavy sucking... you will surely lower her arousal. Softly tongue her clit.. Go easy, too much too soon can be very uncomfortable or again, even painful... Bring her up slowly.... use your fingers to explore her vagina. She should be flowing by now with nice natural lubricants, if not use a water based lubricant like KY. Take her to the edge, and then finally over, again, and again let her explode.